Vicki Demirdjian - Psychotherapist

Bereavement Counselling
Supporting You Through Grief and Loss
Bereavement can be one of the most painful experiences we face. The death of someone important to you can affect every part of life, including your emotions, thoughts, relationships, routines, sleep, appetite and sense of identity.
Grief does not follow a set timeline, and there is no “right” way to grieve. You may feel sadness, anger, guilt, numbness, disbelief, anxiety, loneliness or emotional exhaustion. At times, grief can feel overwhelming. At other times, you may feel disconnected from your emotions altogether. These responses can be confusing, but they are all part of the many ways people experience loss.
Bereavement counselling offers a safe, compassionate and non-judgemental space to talk about your loss, process what has happened, and begin to understand your grief at a pace that feels right for you.
How Bereavement May Affect You
Grief can show up in many different ways. You may notice:
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Intense sadness or tearfulness
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Feeling numb, shocked or disconnected
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Anger, guilt or regret
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Difficulty accepting the loss
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Anxiety about the future
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Changes in sleep, appetite or energy
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Feeling isolated or misunderstood
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Struggling with reminders, anniversaries or special dates
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Difficulty returning to daily life
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A sense that part of your identity has changed
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Feeling unable to talk openly with family or friends
Grief can also bring up complicated emotions, especially if the relationship was difficult, unresolved or layered with mixed feelings. Counselling can provide a space where all parts of your grief are welcome.
How Counselling Can Help
In bereavement counselling, we work together to explore how your loss is affecting you emotionally, physically and relationally. The aim is not to “move on” or forget the person who has died, but to help you find a way to carry the loss with greater support, understanding and compassion.
Counselling may help you to:
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Talk openly about your grief and the person you have lost
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Understand the emotional impact of bereavement
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Process feelings of guilt, anger, regret or unfinished conversations
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Manage anxiety, loneliness or emotional overwhelm
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Navigate changes in family roles or relationships
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Cope with anniversaries, birthdays and difficult reminders
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Rebuild routine and a sense of stability
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Find ways to stay connected to memories while continuing with life
Grief can feel isolating, particularly when others expect you to be “coping” or moving forward before you feel ready. Counselling gives you permission to grieve in your own way, without judgement or pressure.
A Gentle and Compassionate Space
Bereavement counselling is paced around you. Some sessions may focus on talking about the person who has died. Others may focus on the impact of the loss on your daily life, your relationships, your identity or your hopes for the future.
You do not need to have the right words. You do not need to know where to begin. Together, we can gently make space for your grief and support you as you begin to find your way through it.
Moving Forward After Loss
Moving forward after bereavement does not mean leaving your loved one behind. It means learning how to live with the loss, while gradually reconnecting with yourself, your life and the things that continue to matter.
Grief can change over time. With support, it is possible to feel less alone, better understood and more able to manage the emotional weight of loss.
You do not have to go through grief alone.
Sessions
Individual counselling sessions are 50 minutes at a cost of £70 per session.