Vicki Demirdjian - Psychotherapist

Psychotherapy for OCD
Supporting You With Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, often known as OCD, can feel overwhelming, exhausting and deeply misunderstood. OCD is not simply about being tidy, organised or particular. It often involves unwanted intrusive thoughts, images, doubts or urges that create anxiety, distress or discomfort, followed by behaviours or mental rituals that feel necessary in order to reduce that distress.
These rituals may bring short-term relief, but over time they can keep the OCD cycle going. You may find yourself checking, seeking reassurance, avoiding certain situations, repeating actions, mentally reviewing events, neutralising thoughts or trying to feel “certain” before you can move on.
Psychotherapy offers a safe, calm and non-judgemental space to understand your OCD symptoms, explore the anxiety beneath them, and begin developing healthier ways of responding.
How OCD May Show Up
OCD can present in many different ways. These are often described as OCD themes or subtypes, although they are not separate diagnoses. They are different ways that OCD may attach itself to the things that feel important, frightening or uncertain.
Common OCD themes may include:
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Contamination fears, including germs, illness, dirt or feeling “unclean”
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Checking, such as repeatedly checking doors, appliances, messages or mistakes
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Harm-related intrusive thoughts, including fears of harming yourself or others
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Relationship OCD, involving repeated doubts about feelings, attraction or whether a relationship is “right”
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Health-related OCD, including fears about illness, symptoms or medical reassurance-seeking
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Symmetry, ordering or “just right” feelings
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Moral or religious scrupulosity, involving fears of being bad, immoral, sinful or having done something wrong
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Sexual intrusive thoughts, including unwanted thoughts that feel distressing or out of character
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Responsibility-based OCD, involving an intense fear of causing harm, making mistakes or failing to prevent something bad from happening
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Rumination and mental checking, where compulsions happen internally rather than visibly
These thoughts can feel frightening, shameful or confusing, but having intrusive thoughts does not mean they reflect who you are or what you want. OCD often targets the things people care about most.
The OCD Cycle
OCD often follows a repeated cycle:
An intrusive thought, image, urge or doubt appears.
This creates anxiety, fear, guilt, disgust or uncertainty.
A compulsion or mental ritual is used to reduce the distress.
Relief may come briefly, but the doubt returns and the cycle continues.
Compulsions can be visible, such as washing, checking, counting, repeating or arranging. They can also be hidden, such as mental reviewing, reassurance-seeking, neutralising thoughts, praying, analysing, comparing feelings or trying to “work out” whether a thought is true.
Because many compulsions are internal, OCD can often go unnoticed by others, even when it is taking up a significant amount of emotional and mental energy.
How Therapy Can Help
In therapy, we work together to understand how OCD is affecting your thoughts, emotions, behaviours, relationships and daily life. The aim is not to judge the content of the thoughts, but to understand the pattern of fear, uncertainty and compulsive responding that keeps the OCD cycle active.
Using psychotherapy and CBT-informed approaches, therapy can help you to:
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Understand the OCD cycle
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Recognise obsessions, compulsions, avoidance and reassurance-seeking
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Explore the anxiety, guilt or fear beneath the symptoms
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Reduce shame around intrusive thoughts
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Develop healthier responses to uncertainty
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Build emotional regulation and grounding strategies
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Gradually reduce compulsive patterns
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Reconnect with daily life, relationships and personal values
Where appropriate, therapy may include elements of Exposure and Response Prevention, known as ERP. This involves gently and gradually learning to face feared thoughts, situations or feelings without engaging in compulsions, at a pace that feels safe and manageable.
A Compassionate Approach to OCD
OCD can feel isolating, especially when the thoughts are distressing, taboo or difficult to say out loud. Many people with OCD fear being judged or misunderstood, which can lead to secrecy, shame and further anxiety.
Therapy offers a confidential and compassionate space where you can begin to talk about your experiences without judgement. We work collaboratively, at your pace, with the aim of helping you feel more understood, more supported and less controlled by OCD.
You do not have to have everything figured out before starting therapy. We can begin by gently identifying the patterns that are keeping you stuck and building tools to help you respond differently.
Moving Forward
Living with OCD can be exhausting, but support can help. Therapy can help you understand your symptoms, reduce the power of intrusive thoughts, and develop a different relationship with uncertainty, anxiety and compulsive urges.
The goal is not to eliminate every unwanted thought, but to help you feel less controlled by them and more able to live in line with what matters to you.
You do not have to face OCD alone.
Important Note
If you are feeling at risk of harming yourself, unable to keep yourself safe, or in immediate crisis, please seek urgent support through emergency services, NHS 111, your GP, or your local crisis team. This therapy service is not an emergency or crisis service.
Sessions
Individual psychotherapy sessions are 50 minutes at a cost of £70 per session.